I do not want to bore anybody or harp on my woes anymore.....But these past couple of months have not been kind to me.....Nobody has a perfect life, and everybody has their own woes.....But for me it seems that things have come one after another.....It did start with Kevin's death....And I appreciate all the support I have gotten....It lifted me up.....But I have been living with pain on top of the emotional heartbreak....Oddly enough it happened shortly after Kevin's passing....Of course the body reacts differently to stress....My back and right hip started to give me trouble....I thought not much of it and thought it would pass.....But it did not and got progressively worse....To the point where I actually couldn't get out of bed and get dressed.....Went to the emergency room...Went to Docs....Final diagnosis is that I have spinal stenosis and some arthritis.....Why is it just so now bothering me.....Well some kind of major stressful event! The Docs wanted to know if I have been